One of the most difficult situations that a person can go through is divorce. After all, you’ve likely spent a significant amount of time with your partner, and it’s not uncommon to feel shame about announcing a divorce. However, it’s important to recognize that you are human, and divorce isn’t something to be ashamed of. Below are 11 reasons why you shouldn’t feel ashamed about getting a divorce.
Going through a divorce isn’t an enjoyable process. It brings up many emotions, and it helps to recognize that you are strong and have a reason for your divorce.
In a relationship, it’s easy to put your partner’s needs ahead of your own. By getting a divorce, you may be able to put your own needs and desires first. This is a big step in your personal growth.
By getting a divorce, you are teaching your children to respect yourself and the people you are in a relationship with. By remaining cordial with your ex-spouse, you display compassion and forgiveness to your children.
Give yourself credit for how you handled the dissolution of your marriage. Nobody is perfect, and sometimes it’s best to take a step back and recognize that sometimes things don’t work out as you’d hoped in the beginning.
After spending much of your time with your significant other, it’s not uncommon to lose key aspects of yourself to make time for your relationship. After a divorce, you will learn more about yourself and begin to develop new interests again.
When your relationship simply isn’t working out, it doesn’t help to stay in it. You and your partner both deserve happiness in life, and if it’s not with them then it may be time to seek it elsewhere after your divorce.
It’s easy to be fearful and ashamed of a divorce process if it’s not clean-cut. You may feel embarrassed and shameful around other people and family, but this is only temporary. You will learn to heal and open up again.
After leaning on a partner for an extended period of time, you may become reliant on external support and validation. Learning to rely on yourself for your physical, emotional, and financial support can be empowering.
Without having someone else in your home to share your time with, you can learn to love your free time and fill it with what makes you happy. If children are in the picture and you are sharing custody with your ex-spouse, this can also open your schedule for me-time.
Starting fresh after a divorce can be cathartic. By rebuilding your life, you give yourself the chance to establish the lifestyle, career, and passions that you’d always hoped to.
Forgiveness is a difficult feeling to master. In a divorce, it’s easy to get tied up in the stress of the situation. Once you can let go of the pent-up anger, you learn to control your own happiness.
Divorces are complex and often require negotiations between parties. For a more seamless divorce process, consider working with a divorce attorney. Scott Hamblin, attorney at law, is an experienced divorce attorney. He will review your case and help guide you toward the outcome you deserve. For a consultation with Scott Hamblin, contact us today.
A Jefferson City man faced DUI charges following a field sobriety test. Charges against the defendant were dropped after Scott successfully maintained the client’s claims that the test results were inaccurate. While the client initially appeared to be in a difficult situation, Scott was able to push investigators to determine the sobriety test results as invalid, so the charges were dismissed.
A mother was seeking sole custody of her children following a divorce. The father refused to cooperate, leaving the client in a difficult situation as she felt as though her children didn’t have a voice. Scott recognized her need for an advocate and carefully listened to the children’s wishes, which conclusively helped the client achieve sole custody of her children and protected their best interests.
A client from Fulton was accused of drug possession as a result of a home search. While drug charges may potentially be filed as a Class C felony involving severe consequences, Scott was able to help the client receive a reduced sentence. Ultimately, the client faced significantly smaller penalties compared to the initial charges.
Scott assisted a defendant in a particularly challenging divorce case in which the other spouse was not cooperating. Scott was able to help the client avoid court through an aggressive legal approach to resolve all outstanding disagreements while maintaining the client’s long-term needs.
One client sought legal assistance after an altercation with another individual in Jefferson City. The client was arrested on assault charges despite allegedly not starting the fight. Since an arrest can lead to life-altering penalties such as being terminated from employment and serving jail time, Scott was able to build a solid legal defense in the client’s favor and argued in favor of the client’s innocence.
A grandparent sought visitation rights to his grandchild after the parent tried to block him. Scott takes grandparents’ rights very seriously, and so he devised a strategy to help the grandparent set a visitation schedule. Scott developed a strategy to show that the child’s best interests were fulfilled through the grandparent’s ability to visit the child, helping push the case towards a resolution in the client’s favor.
Scott assisted a client who was injured in a car accident due to another driver’s negligence. The defendant claimed that the opposing party using their phone at the time of the crash, and Scott emphasized this claim to show that the other driver was at fault for the client’s injuries. The case concluded with the client receiving the necessary compensation for medical bills following a long hospital stay due to injuries.
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Finding an attorney is not easy, and in my case I was in a child custody modification that was being dragged out and messy. This went on for a full 3.5 years. I had other representation at the time that I didn’t feel was doing what was best for me and my kids. I reached out to Scott after taking time to review others reviews and asking around in the community for a collective opinion. Scott is hands down the most honest, direct, family law attorney I could have asked for. If I had a question or needed advise him…
My divorce was with a difficult person, Mr.Hamblin handled every aspect of the divorce, professionally and quickly, his experience and knowledge was extremely helpful. thank you, Mr.Hamblin for your support.
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